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Four Questions everyone should ask themselves about aging

  • Writer: Maureen Hoggan
    Maureen Hoggan
  • Jan 23
  • 4 min read

As I near my 69th birthday, the looming number of 70 is both scary and exciting. My goal is to reach not just 70 but hopefully 89 with my mind still sharp and intact. Society often has negative assumptions about aging, as if everything goes downhill once you hit these milestones. But growing older is a privilege, a natural part of our journey through life. Many people never have the opportunity to experience the gift of old age; their journey is cut short. I am fortunate to come from long-lived family members. Might it be that Italian thing?




EMBRACE THE GOLDEN YEARS WITH A TOUCH OF HUMOR!


Age Like Fine Wine, Laugh Like Aged Cheese

Remember when going to the store was just a chore? Now it's the highlight of your day! Celebrate the joys of aging, turning everyday moments into hilarious adventures. Then there is the computer....wow! What a life-changing nightmare this is for some. Later I will have information on some simple computer skills that might help. So, if sitting around isn't your thing, consider finding a part-time job that aligns with your interests.


Unlock New Levels of Relaxation

Yes, as we gracefully age like fine wine, our adventures may be less wild and more "mild," but hey, who

Forget extreme sports - we're all about extreme comfort! Learn to perfect the fine art of napping, master the remote-controlled shuffle, and become a connoisseur of iced tea flavors. It's time to level up your leisure game!

This is a powerful question because it holds the key to your attitude about your destiny and fulfillment. I've always heard that getting older is a privilege, which is so true! So tell me, when you look at aging,

Is your aging cup half full or half empty? It's time to fill it to the brim with positivity! Wake up each day excited to become a better version of yourself. Trust me, it's easier than you think! Connect with like-minded individuals who see aging as a thrilling journey of self-discovery and endless possibilities.

The aging process is an exciting journey filled with new possibilities! As we grow older, we have the chance to become wiser, more confident, and truly embrace who we are. Rather than dreading the changes, we should enthusiastically welcome each new phase of life.


2. What is your personal definition of success and aging?

I strive for a greater sense of self-acceptance and acceptance of others. The journey through life isn't just about wrinkles and gray hair—it's about growth, wisdom, and self-discovery. Though I have my highs and lows, there are times when I feel overwhelmed and unsure of where to turn. It can feel like the walls are closing in on me, and pulling myself out of a slump takes effort. But with determination, turning things around becomes easier over time.

As we grow older, we gain greater acceptance of ourselves and others. Our life experiences help us make wiser decisions, and we develop invaluable wisdom and empathy. Some of these things that we think about are:


Age is Just a Number: Redefine Your Limits

Who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks? Challenge social norms and embrace the endless possibilities that come with age. Stay active, nourish your body, and prioritize rest to keep your physical health in top shape. Your body may be changing, but your spirit is timeless! Maintain your independence, focus on what truly matters to you

Loneliness?

Not on our watch! Nurture your existing relationships and forge new ones. Engage with the community, volunteer, or join clubs that align with your interests. Remember, social connections are the lifeline to a vibrant and fulfilling life, no matter your age. This is where the internet might become a good friend for you.


3. Do You Love Your Body, Your Actions, Your Lifestyle?

Are you ready to fall in love with yourself?

Every wrinkle, every gray hair, every delightful little ache is a testament to your incredible voyage through time. Now, we must embrace the changes - the wrinkles, the sags, the aches and pains - they're all part of the journey, the battle scars of a life well-lived.


It's time to like yourself with aging! Here's how:

  • Embrace the changes - they're signs of a life fully lived

  • Practice self-compassion - you're doing great, exactly as you are

  • Find humor in the process - laughter is the best medicine, after all

  • Celebrate your journey - you've made it this far, and that's amazing! 4. Embrace Your Golden Years: It's Your Time to Shine!

Who says aging can't be an adventure? Your best days are here, and they're yours!

Perfection?

Remember when you thought everyone else had it all figured out? Surprise! We are all imperfect! That's what makes life interesting. Embrace your quirks and celebrate your uniqueness – it's time to write your own rulebook!

Discover Your Joy

What lights you up? Is it scoring amazing senior discounts, forging new friendships, or sharing your wealth of wisdom? Maybe it's the thrill of extreme couponing or perfecting your grumpy neighbor act. Whatever it is, now's the time to pursue it with passion!

Give Back and Grow

There's something magical about helping others. Whether you volunteer at a local gathering or mentor young minds, helping out on school or church functions, your experiences can make a real difference. Plus, it feels pretty darn good!

Live Life on Your Terms

Who says you can't have ice cream for breakfast or declare a mandatory daily nap time? Your golden years are all about doing what makes YOU happy. So go ahead, be a little rebellious – you've earned it!

Embrace the Unexpected

Life's full of surprises, and that doesn't stop in retirement. Whether you're discovering a hidden talent for painting or becoming the neighborhood's unofficial dog walker, every day is an opportunity for a new adventure!

Remember, these are YOUR golden years. So laugh often, love deeply, and live passionately. After all, age is just a number – it's how you live that counts!






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